Monday, March 21, 2011

Attitude of Confidence

Attitude is the difference between ugly and beautiful. Weak or Strong. Walk with confidence and the possibilities are endless that come your way. There is a difference between arrogance and confidence. Arrogance is conceived from low self-esteem; a self perception made by a person to try and direct one into thinking that the individual in question is endowed with perfection. It actually is put there by that person to try and thwart someones attention to the misgivings that the said individual feels they have but in turn breeds nothing but contempt and rejection from people around them.


However, confidence is the opposite.  Confidence offers poise, and calculated structure. It is based on a well rounded self perception. To wear an outfit that others may deem as too risque is a great example. Walking into a room with a presence that announces "I AM HERE". It is assurance that you are comfortable with who you are and what you have to offer.


Walk into a room with the attitude that you are it. That everyone wants to be your friend. Don't do desperate activities to draw attention to yourself like laughing out loudly with a phony disposition, but rather do it by acting that you do not care whether you are noticed or not. Then you will notice people will gravitate towards you and want to talk to you. Confidence allows you to do things you want to without worrying about what others think. Confidence
makes you a leader and not a follower. I personally would rather be the leader than a follower.

Start with a new colorful shirt or a new sassy bright lipstick that is so hot this season.

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